Sexual Wellness
Created on 03/02/2020
Updated on 13/10/2022
From vaginal orgasms to G-spot orgasms to anal orgasms to straight up clitoral orgasms, there is no shortage of orgasms to be had out there. And hereโs the best part: All of these orgasms donโt necessarily exist independently of one another. You can combine any number of stimuli to create a blended orgasm. This means engaging different areas of the clitoris or other erogenous zones to double, triple, or even quadruple the ways you experience climax.
Before we talk more about what a blended orgasm actually is (and how to have one), allow us first to address the elephant in the room: There are too many articles designed to make those raised female feel โless thanโโespecially when it comes to sex. There is a lot of pressure to have all kinds of Olympian orgasms, all while attending to our partnerโs needs over our own. So easy, right? When it comes to blended orgasms, it can be easy to think: Why not add blended orgasms to the mix?!! By all means, pile on that pressure.
We want to be clear that while Dame is in the business of accurate information and sex positivity, we are not trying to add complexities and unrealistic expectations to your life. We want to encourage you to explore your sexuality and love every minute of it.
It just so happens there are lots of different ways a vulva-haverโs beautiful, majestic, glorious, complex body experiences pleasure and orgasm. You should see what works for you and revel in all that pleasure.
the back of the clitoris, behind the pubic bone, by using a come hither motion.โ You can also use a toy for G-spot stimulation. (Check out Dameโs new multipurpose vibrator, Arc.)
While all of this is going down, you can incorporate your favorite clitoral toys to get that pleasure blended. Sometimes itโs easier for you to focus on the clitoris while your partner focuses on the G-spot. Grab your Pom and get after it!
Keep in mind that there is no pressure here. Sexual pleasure is not about being able to do sexual acrobatics, where youโre able to have an orgasm with a butt plug in, your cervix stimulated, all while having intercourse. None of this is meant to make you feel like you need to perform or that what you like in bed isnโt โgood enough.โ All pleasure is wonderful. If youโre having good sex, are loving everything you do in bed, and are happyโthen keep doing your thing!