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Dame’s Guide to Sexual Identity

Here are 10 of our favorite posts about sexuality, orientation, and gender identity.

~ Dame

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july sexoscopes
Culture

Your July Sexoscopes

Welcome to July, lovers! Hot vaxx summer is upon us, and we’re all aching to make out with life again.

~ Stefanie Caponi

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Britney Spears Deserves Reproductive Autonomy

Britney’s high-profile case shined a light on the question: who has the right to birth and raise children?

~ Sandra Carpenter

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Culture

The Complicated Legacy of the Kinsey Scale

Dr. Alfred Kinsey proposed the radical idea that sexual orientation lies on a spectrum.

~ Leo Aquino

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How to Deal With Bi Erasure

Discrimination against bisexual people is harmful and persistent. Here’s how to cope.

~ Reina Gattuso

july sexoscopes
july sexoscopes
Culture

Your July Sexoscopes

Welcome to July, lovers! Hot vaxx summer is upon us, and we’re all aching to make out with life again.

~ Stefanie Caponi

Green background with blue text reading Britney Spears deserves reproductive autonomy
Culture

Britney Spears Deserves Reproductive Autonomy

Britney’s high-profile case shined a light on the question: who has the right to birth and raise children?

~ Sandra Carpenter

kinsey scale
Culture

The Complicated Legacy of the Kinsey Scale

Dr. Alfred Kinsey proposed the radical idea that sexual orientation lies on a spectrum.

~ Leo Aquino

how to deal with bi erasure
Culture

How to Deal With Bi Erasure

Discrimination against bisexual people is harmful and persistent. Here’s how to cope.

~ Reina Gattuso

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two people looking at a rainbow path
Culture

How to Celebrate Pride if You’re Not Into Parades

Not into a big Pride parade this year? Here are some suggestions for a slower, more intimate celebration.

~ Sandra Carpenter

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june sexoscopes
Culture

Your June Sexoscopes

Welcome to June, lovers! And happy Pride month.

~ Stefanie Caponi

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abstract shapes representing gender neutral sex toys
Sexual Wellness

A Guide to Gender-Neutral Sex Toys

Trans and gender non-conforming people have sex toy options that cater to their needs.

~ R.T. Collins

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self care for mothers
Culture

Real Self-Care For Moms (That Goes Beyond Basic Needs)

Here’s how moms can practice self-care for longevity and transformation.

~ Sandra Carpenter

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What It’s Like to Be Constantly Misgendered

The world is not yet constructed to accept and support trans people, and it hurts.

~ R.T. Collins

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Culture

Readjusting to Touch and Intimacy as the World Reopens

A therapist explains how we can ease back into face-to-face interaction.

~ Sandra Carpenter

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Culture

What is the Pleasure Gap?

Pleasure is not equitable.

~ Dame

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senti sojwal
Culture

What’s In Your Nightstand, Senti Sojwal?

We spoke with Senti Sojwal, cofounder of Asian American Feminist Collective.

~ Dame

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two lesbians intertwined in a sexual act
Culture

Debunking the “Lesbian Bed Death” Myth

It’s time we did away with the stereotype that lesbian relationships are sexless.

~ Megan Martin

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What’s In Your Nightstand, Danielle Bezalel?

We spoke with Danielle Bezalel about CBD lube, masturbation, and much more.

~ Dame

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10 book covers on the history of women and pleasure
Culture

10 Books on the History of Women, Sex, and Pleasure

In honor of Women’s History Month, we bring you our favorite books on women and sexuality.

~ Dame

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Your March Sexoscopes

Welcome to March, lovers! Take a moment to honor yourself exactly where you are.

~ Stefanie Caponi

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lynn comella
Culture

What’s In Your Nightstand, Lynn Comella?

We spoke with the brilliant sex scholar and author of Vibrator Nation.

~ Dame

february sexoscopes
february sexoscopes
Culture

Your February Sexoscopes

Our first mercury retrograde of 2021 gives us the opportunity to slow down and reflect.

~ Stefanie Caponi

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luna matatas
Culture

What’s In Your Nightstand, Luna Matatas?

Luna Matatas teaches sexual health, empowerment, BDSM, butt stuff and more.

~ Dame

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graysexuality
Culture

What Is Graysexuality?

We discuss asexuality, graysexuality, and the rest of the ace spectrum.

~ Dame

january sexoscopes
january sexoscopes
Culture

Your January Sexoscopes

This year promises to be different than 2020—but not in the ways we expect.

~ Stefanie Caponi

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Can We Control Our Attractions?

Our social environments—not just biology or personalities—can affect our sexualities.

~ Danielle Campoamor

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sex ed gift guide
Culture

Give the Gift of Sexual Knowledge This Holiday Season

Gift ideas for a person who cares more about expanding their mind and body.

~ Dame