Vibrators Designed for Real Bodies
(and Real Pleasure)
Science-backed. Body-safe. Whisper‐quiet. Doctor Approved. Female Founded.
Looking for vibrators for women (and anyone with a vulva), beginner vibrators, couples vibrators to use during sex, or quiet vibrators? You're in the right place.
Clitoral Vibrators
External stimulation & clitoral stimulation favorites
Beginner Vibrators
Approachable, flexible shapes for first‐timers
The Dame Story: Science-Backed Vibrators for Women
Dame was founded by sexologist Alexandra Fine to solve a real problem: most vibrators weren't designed for real bodies. From day one, the team set a new standard for vibrators for women, femmes, and non-binary folks - products grounded in clinical research, prototyped with real vulvas, and built to empower, not embarrass.
Instead of performance over connection, Dame centers clitoral stimulation and inclusive design so more people can experience reliable orgasms. The result is a line that works for beginners and first timers who want gentle exploration, as well as power-seekers who prefer deeper, rumbly intensity.
Quiet motors, body-safe silicone, and ergonomic shapes make everyday use simple and discreet, while thoughtful details help partners keep the clit in play during sex.
Made for real life:
The mission is bigger than products. Dame challenges stigma with practical tools and plain-language guidance so she can buy a vibrator confidently, explore what feels good, and enjoy connection that actually fits her body.
Trusted by Women Everywhere
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Great brand for women
Great brand for women
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Perfect first vibrator
I couldn't be happier with my order! This was my first vibrator and it is so perfect! I am very satisfied, in more ways than one, thank you.
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Just what we were looking for!
Just what we were looking for!
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I LOVE DAME
I LOVE DAME. I could shout it from the rooftop. I am in love with everything I have ordered. We love female owned sex empowerment + closing the pleasure gap. Dame has the products to keep you going!
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Thoughtful and well-built
A thoughtful, well-built, super fun to use product. My partner LOVES it, thanks!
Read moreMeet Eva - the hands-free clitoral vibrator for couples
It started with Eva - Dame's wearable, hands-free vibrator designed to stay put during sex. Flexible wings nestle under the labia to keep clitoral stimulation in play - no straps, no holding, no constant adjustment. For many couples, that simple, body-informed idea helps bridge the pleasure gap so both partners can stay present and satisfied.
Why people love Eva:
Real People. Real Orgasms:
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Amazing couples vibe that's female focused
Finally an amazing couples vibe that's female focused!! Had no problems fitting this little baby right where it needed to go and enjoyed the different speeds and sensations right along with my partner.
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Wow...
Wow. . . Gave me probably the quickest orgasm I have ever had.
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Life changing
This toy is amazing. Life changing.
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GAME. CHANGER.
GAME. CHANGER. It stayed in place (mostly), the vibrations were just right, and suddenly, we were both very big fans. The silicone is super soft, it's easy to clean, and it's rechargeable. If you're looking for something to spice things up as a couple, this little gadget is worth a try.
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Love this new toy
Love this new toy for personal and partner play!
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This changed everything
This changed everything for me.
Read moreBut Is It for Everyone? Let's Be Real.
Every body is different. For some, Eva is an absolute game-changer. For others, it might not fit quite right - and that's okay.
That's why Dame offers store credit returns if Eva's not your perfect fit. You can easily swap it for another toy that's more in tune with your anatomy or preferences. No weird forms. No judgment.
Why Dame Products Are Different
All Time Favs
Eva
$135
Perfect for beginners and couples. Hands-free wearable design.
Arc
$115
Dual stimulation for intense internal and external pleasure.
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Great product for exploration
Thank you for a great product! I'm having fun exploring and enjoying by myself and with my partner!
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Better than he ever did
Omg. I got ghosted and ordered this puppy. Thank god. I mean, it does a better job than he ever did. Bless you, Dame. xoxox
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Wonderful products
Wonderful products. Discreet shipping. Beautiful packaging. Highly recommend.
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First time buying
First time buying a vibrator and honestly so happy with this one!!! Works like a charm :) It's also super super cute and a great size. Very happy with my purchase!
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10/10 would recommend
10/10 would recommend. Speedy delivery, beautiful product, excellent orgasms.
Read moreHow to Choose the Right Vibrator for You
Use these quick questions to narrow it down:
Where do you like stimulation?
External (clitoris & vulva), internal (G‐spot), or both. Most vulva‐owners orgasm from external stimulation-totally normal. If you're searching for a clitoral vibrator, start with Pom or Aer.
Hands‐free or hands‐on?
Wearables like Eva keep your hands (and focus) free during sex. Finger vibes like Fin give precision and control-great if you want a bullet vibrator feel with more grip.
What kind of sensation do you crave?
Deep & most powerful rumbly motors, gentle air‐pulse suction, or pinpoint buzz-each feels different. Arc and Pom are our go‐tos for powerful vibrator seekers.
Material & safety matters.
Medical‐grade silicone (aka body‐safe) is non‐porous and easy to clean. If a brand doesn't list materials, skip it.
Little things = big difference.
Quiet motors, magnetic rechargeable charging, travel locks, waterproof builds-these details make a toy effortless to use.
Need more help? Take the quiz or DM our team-zero shame, all support.
Compare Vibrators
Find your perfect match with our complete product comparison
| Product |
Arc
$115
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Eva
$125
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Pom
$95
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Aer
$125
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Com
$135
$90
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Min
$69
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Hug
$75
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Fin
$49
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Dip
$39
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Zee
$25
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| Type | G-spot vibrator | Hands-free couples vibrator | Palm vibrator | Suction toy (air-pulse) | External wand vibrator | External wand vibrator | Vibrating cock ring | Finger vibrator | Basic vibrator | Bullet vibrator |
| Focus | Internal & external | Clitoral (during sex) | External | Clitoral | External | External | External | External | Internal & external | External |
| Best for (SEO) | powerful vibrator; clitoral stimulation; g-spot stimulation; beginners | use while having sex; clit during sex; couples; hands-free | clitoral vibrator; beginners; quiet | mimics oral sex; clitoral stimulation; powerful | most powerful; powerful clit vibrator; beginners | vibrators for women; beginners; quiet | couples; him and her; clit during sex | clitoral stimulation; couples; use during sex | beginner-friendly vibrator | powerful bullet vibrator; travel; discreet |
| Waterproof | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Intensity levels | 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 | 5 | 5 | 5 | 5 | 5 | 3 |
| Quietness | Silent | Silent | Silent | Silent | Silent | Silent | Quiet | Quiet | Quiet | Quiet |
| Run time at highest settings | 1.5 hrs | 1 hrs | 1 hrs | 1.5 hrs | 1 hrs | 1.2 hrs | 1 hrs | 1 hrs | 1.5 hrs | 1 hrs |
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Caring for Your Vibrator 101
A simple routine keeps vibrators feeling great and lasting longer.
Quick care routine
Before use
Charge and clean with Hand + Vibe Cleaner.
During play
Use Aloe Lube (water-based) with medical-grade silicone toys to protect the finish and feel.
After every session
Rinse waterproof toys, then spritz Hand + Vibe Cleaner and air-dry. For non-waterproof items, wipe down and keep ports dry.
Storage
Store separately in a lint-free pouch to avoid dust and material transfer. Keep away from extreme heat or sunlight.
Maintenance
Top up the battery monthly if you're not using it. Avoid leaving it plugged in overnight.
Recommended accessories
(shop the Personal Care lineup)
Aloe Lube
Doctor-approved, pH-balanced, toy-safe glide for clitoral vibrator designs and beginner-friendly vibrators.
Hand + Vibe Cleaner
No-water-needed spray for hands and toys - quick clean before/after you buy a vibrator or use one.
Body Wipes
Aloe-infused wipes for a fast, gentle refresh - great for travel and to discreetly order with any toy.
Play Balm (Intimate Moisturizer)
Multipurpose cream for regular or in-the-moment moisture.
Massage Oil
Lightweight, naturally-derived body oil for intimacy and relaxation.
Massage Oil Candle
Plant-based, pourable massage candle in three scents - set the mood before or after play.
Arousal Serum
Plant-based, tingly topical to help awaken sensation.
Desire Gummies
Doctor-formulated daily supplement that supports sexual satisfaction.*
Limited Time Offer
Get 20% off your first order + free shipping on orders over $75
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Frequently Asked Questions
Are silicone vibrators safe?
Yes. We use medical‐grade, non‐porous silicone that's lab‐tested and free from phthalates.
What is the most powerful vibrator you offer?
Power feels different body‐to‐body, but if you want a most powerful vibrator experience, start with Arc (deep, rumbly) or Pom (broad, flexible). For compact power, try a powerful bullet vibrator like Zee.
Can I use a vibrator during sex with a partner?
Yes-Eva is a hands‐free couples vibrator designed to use during sex, and many people love pairing Pom or Fin with foreplay.
What's the difference between a clitoral vibrator and a wand or bullet?
Clitoral vibrators focus on clitoral stimulation; wands are broader and stronger; bullets are compact and pinpoint.
Can I use a vibrator in the shower or bath?
Many Dame vibrators are fully waterproof (IPX7). Check each product page to be sure.
Do you offer discreet shipping and billing?
Always. Plain packaging, nondescript billing.
What if my vibrator stops working?
Our 3‐year warranty and support team have you covered-reach out and we'll help.
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