Vibrators

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Crafted from medical-grade silicone, each Dame vibrator features multiple intensity levels, whisper-quiet motors, and rechargeable, waterproof designs for effortless enjoyment. Our sex toys are designed to fit naturally in your hand, providing targeted or full-coverage stimulation with easy-to-use controls.
 
Backed by research and real user feedback, Dame’s vibrators are built for satisfaction. Whether you’re new to sex toys or upgrading to a high-quality, long-lasting vibrator, explore our collection to find the perfect match for your pleasure. Shop the best vibrators today and experience pleasure redefined.

Q: What is a vibrator?

A: A vibrator is a powerful and versatile personal pleasure device that creates vibrations to stimulate various sensitive areas of your body, like the clitoris and G-spot. They come in a wide range of shapes, sizes, and features, so there’s something for everyone.

Vibrators can be used on almost any erogenous zone, offering unique sensations that can boost your pleasure and help you discover what feels amazing. Some are designed to mimic penetration, while others focus on external stimulation to give you an unforgettable experience. 

Did you know that fewer than 20% of vulva-owner can climax solely with vaginal stimulation or intercourse? This is why vibrators have been growing in popularity, and why companies like Dame are dedicated to amplifying the conversation of closing the pleasure gap. 

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Q: How do I use a vibrator?

A: Using a vibrator can enhance your pleasure significantly, but where you use them differs based on preference and if you are a vulva or penis owner. Begin by selecting a comfortable and private space where you feel at ease. If desired, use sex toy-safe lubrication, as this will enhance sensations and reduce friction. Turn on your vibrator (usually a button on the opposite end of the “head”), and explore different settings or intensities using the buttons provided on the device and gradually finding what feels best for you. 

When it comes to exploring with your vibrator, it's common to start with well-known areas like the clitoris, G-spot, and penis shaft, all of which respond wonderfully to vibrator stimulation. However, don't overlook other exciting zones such as the inner thighs, nipples, areolas, belly button, and lips—they can provide pleasurable experiences that add depth to your play. For the more adventurous, consider venturing into less familiar territories like the insides of the knees, palms, and scalp. While these areas may seem unconventional at first, they can offer unique sensations that enhance your overall exploration and pleasure.

For an additional step-by-step guide, check out detailed instructions here, which talk about insights on techniques, positioning, and tips for maximum pleasure.

Q: What are the different types of vibrators?

A: There are numerous types of vibrators, each designed for various forms of stimulation:

• Clit Vibrator: These are specifically shaped to target the clitoris, often with a compact and discreet design for ease of use.

• G-spot Vibrator: Typically curved, these vibrators are designed to reach and stimulate the G-spot, providing deeper sensations during penetration.

• Finger Vibrator: Small and often worn on the fingertip, these offer precise control and are perfect for targeted stimulation.

• Couples Vibrator: Designed to be worn during intercourse, they provide simultaneous pleasure by stimulating both partners.

• Vibrating Cock Ring: Worn around the base of the penis, these enhance sensations for both partners during sex and can help with stamina.

• Suction Vibrator: These use suction air-pulse technology to create a unique sensation for the clitoris, often simulating oral stimulation.

• Wand Vibrator: Known for its powerful motors and larger size, these versatile devices can be used all over the body for broad-based pleasure.

• Bullet Vibrator: Compact and portable and designed for targeted stimulation and are perfect for both solo and partnered play. 

Q: How do I choose the best vibrator for my needs?

A: Choosing the right vibrator depends on your preferences for stimulation, whether you prefer external or internal sensations. Here are some tips:

1. If you enjoy external stimulation, clitoral or bullet vibrators might be ideal. For those who enjoy internal sensations, consider G-spot or dildo options.

2. Varying intensities can significantly impact your experience, so look for a vibrator with adjustable settings.

3. Opt for body-safe materials, such as silicone or glass, and consider ergonomics that fit comfortably in your hand.

In addition, below are more categories of vibrators to consider as you make your choice:

• Internal Vibrators: Designed for vaginal insertion, these toys simulate intercourse and provide internal stimulation. Some models are curved to reach the G-spot, while others can access deeper spots, like the A-spot.

• External Vibrators: These come in various styles and are often referred to as clitoral vibrators since they primarily stimulate the clitoris. Popular options include bullet vibrators for targeted stimulation, powerful magic wands, and small palm vibrators.

• Combination Vibrators: Perfect for maximizing pleasure, these vibrators stimulate two areas simultaneously. The classic example is the rabbit vibrator, which combines internal and clitoral stimulation. More adventurous models can target additional areas, including the anus for enhanced sensations.

• Anal Vibrators: Specifically designed for anal play, these are slimmer than vaginal vibrators and feature a flared base for safety. Options include anal probes, vibrating butt plugs, and anal beads tailored to stimulate the prostate.

• Oral Sex Simulators: Though not all are vibrators, these toys mimic the sensations of oral sex. Many, like the rose vibrator, create suction on the clitoris, while others may feature rotating tongues for a more dynamic experience.

• Vibrators for Penis Owners: This category includes vibrating cock rings, Fleshlight™ sleeves, and prostate stimulators that cater to various preferences, enhancing stimulation for all parts of the genital area.

• Vibrators for Partners: Designed for shared experiences, these can be used during penetrative sex or with remote control features, like vibrating panties or double-ended dildos that boost pleasure for both partners.

No matter what you choose, each category of vibrators offers exciting ways to explore pleasure and intimacy, so let your imagination lead the way.

Q: Are Dame vibrators waterproof and rechargeable?

A: Yes! Dame vibrators are designed to be waterproof, making them suitable for use in the bath or shower. They also come with rechargeable batteries, eliminating the need for disposable batteries and ensuring long-lasting pleasure. Most can be charged via USB, making it easy to keep them ready for when the mood strikes.

Q: Can you become addicted to a vibrator?

A: While you can’t become “addicted” in a clinical sense, regular use of a vibrator may lead to temporary desensitization in some users due to overstimulation. Experts like Madeline Gregg, a credentialed sexologist, note that while consistent use can lead to temporary numbness, it’s not indicative of an addiction.

Similarly to holding the handle of a lawn mower and your hands getting numb/tingly, this can also happen to your clitoris when using a vibrator for a prolonged period. Taking a 15-30 minute break will give your body time to get proper sensation back to that sensitive sex organ.

On the topic of becoming "addicted"- you can develop a favoritism towards a vibrator or a setting on the vibrator. It's important to change it up sometimes. Make it a fun challenge and don't put pressure on yourself. The more you orgasm, the more you will orgasm. And diversifying the stimuli and the type of climax can make for a very pleasurable experience.

Q: What is the quietest vibrator for discreet use?

A: Dame vibrators are touted for their whisper-quiet motors, designed to pleasure without drawing attention or distracting during intimate moments.

Q: What is the history of the vibrator?

A: The history of the vibrator is a rich narrative that intertwines medical invention with evolving societal attitudes toward female sexuality. Initially created in the 1880s by British physician Joseph Mortimer Granville, the electric vibrator was marketed as a therapeutic device intended to treat various ailments, including asthma and impotency. According to Lynn Comella, an Associate Professor of Gender and Sexuality Studies, these early vibrators were often acknowledged for their sexual potential, even if marketers used coded language to obscure that aspect (Comella). As the years progressed, the vibrator began to gain popularity in pornography by the late 1910s, leading to the introduction of phallic designs in the 1950s as battery technology advanced.

The sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s transformed the vibrator into a symbol of women's liberation, thanks to influential figures like sex educator Betty Dodson and feminist shop owners Joani Blank and Dell Williams (Comella). This period marked a significant cultural shift, where vibrators became celebrated tools for self-pleasure and empowerment, marking a departure from their earlier medical claims. Modern vibrators are lightweight, ergonomically designed, and crafted from body-safe materials, with many focusing on sexual wellness alongside pleasure (Liberman). The future of vibrators appears bright, especially with the rise of female-led startups poised to push innovation in the industry (Comella).

These answers were reviewed by Madeline Gregg, M.S., C.S.E., a dedicated sexologist and sexual health educator committed to empowering individuals and couples through education and open communication about sexuality. With certification from the American Board of Sexology, she combines expertise with a warm, approachable demeanor to help clients navigate desires and enhance intimacy. As a contributor to Dame, Madeline shares her insights on sexual health and pleasure, fostering open dialogue and promoting inclusivity and body positivity. In her free time, she explores sexual wellness research and advocates for a more informed society regarding sexual health. Find her on TikTok.