A New Kind of Wearable for Couples
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A New Kind of Wearable for Couples

Created on 10/08/2018
Updated on 14/10/2022

This article originally appeared in the New York Times.

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As a product designer, Janet Lieberman often finds flaws in everyday tech devices. This was particularly true when it came to vibrators, which she would spend hours shopping for on Amazon.

โ€œI had always bought cheap vibrators and my bedside drawer was a graveyard for them,โ€ said Ms. Lieberman, 31, who lives in Brooklyn and studied mechanical engineering at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. โ€œYou could replace the batteries but they still would stop working.โ€

ย After splurging on a pricey vibrator for a boyfriendโ€™s birthday that also quickly died, she had an aha moment. โ€œI realized there was a need for well-engineered sex toys,โ€ she said. โ€œThereโ€™s no real trusted brand and thatโ€™s what weโ€™re setting out to be.โ€

โ€œI was living in my grandmotherโ€™s pool house at the time,โ€ Ms. Fine, 29, said. She had just graduated from Columbia, where she got a masterโ€™s degree in clinical psychology โ€œwith a focus on marriage counseling and sex therapy,โ€ she said.

After dozens of prototypes, they came up with their design: an egg-shaped vibrator made of medical-grade silicone that attaches to a womanโ€™s nether region by means of two wings. Not only can the device be operated hands-free, it is also designed in a way that does not interfere with a coupleโ€™s intimacy.

โ€œWe wanted to stimulate women with something nonobtrusive so you can look in your partnerโ€™s eyes,โ€ Ms. Fine said.

They called the device Eva and after raising $575,000 onย Indiegogoย in 2014, they went to market in early 2015. To date, they have sold over 65,000 units at $105 a pop.ย 

Eva, which is manufactured by Dame Products, is among a recent surge of products that embraces feminism as part of its marketing. Like the โ€œperiod-proofโ€ underwearbrand Thinx, it telegraphs a pro-women identity.

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Alexandra Fine, far left, and her business partner, Janet Lieberman, have sold more than 65,000 Eva vibrators at $105 each.

โ€œOur continuing mission: to design well-engineered sex toys, to heighten intimacy, and to openly empower the sexual experiences of womankind,โ€ reads theย companyโ€™s website. The message is amplified through Dameโ€™s Instagram account, filled with posts like a pink neon sign that reads โ€œMy Body My Business.โ€

The founders also have the lingo down. โ€œOur mission is to close the pleasure gap,โ€ Ms. Fine said during a recent tour of the companyโ€™s office in Greenpoint, Brooklyn. โ€œWe want to fight any inequality between the sexes, but especially when it comes to sexual practices. We want women to claim their sexual pleasure and own it.โ€

ย Kristina Monllos, a reporter at Adweek who covers marketing innovation and consumer trends, said that Eva and Thinx appeal to millennial consumers who want ethically and socially-minded products developed for their generation.

โ€œYoung people across the gender spectrum are creating brands that live up to and express their own political ideals,โ€ Ms. Monllos said. โ€œWeโ€™re seeing this millennial version now where itโ€™s a very stylized aesthetic coupled with these feminist, pro-women ideals.โ€

Ms. Lieberman and Ms. Fine are hoping that their cheerily designed vibrators will help sex toys shed some of their seedier connotations.

โ€œWe fall into this really weird space between gag gift, pornography, medical device, health and wellness device and tech gadget,โ€ Ms. Lieberman said. โ€œWe hope to change that.โ€

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