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Sexual Wellness

What You Need to Know About Emergency Birth Control

7 min read

Created on 13/01/2020
Updated on 13/10/2022
Alexandra Fine

Alexandra Fine

Dame founder & sexologist

10+ years of experience

Sexual wellness Orgasm science Pleasure education

Alexandra Fine is the co-founder and CEO of Dame, a pioneering sexual wellness company known for its innovative products and mission to close the pleasure gap. Recognized in Forbes’ 30 Under 30 2018, Alexandra leads Dame in designing user-centered tools that enhance intimacy, receiving acclaim from major outlets like The New York Times and Wired. Under her leadership, Dame Products has become a leader in the sexual wellness industry, raised over $14M in capital, and launched in Target and Walmart, all while advocating for women's health and breaking barriers in advertising.

Edie Elliott Granger

Edie Elliott Granger

Editor & content strategist

3+ years of experience

Sexual wellness Orgasm science Pleasure education

Edie Elliott Granger is Dame's editor and content strategist specializing in sexual wellness, pleasure education, and accessible health information. She helps shape editorial content at Dame, translating research, expert insights, and cultural conversations into clear, approachable resources. With a background in sex education, her work focuses on making conversations around sex, bodies, and pleasure more informed, inclusive, and stigma-free.

No matter how careful you are, there may be a time when you’re worried you might accidentally get pregnant. Maybe a condom broke. Maybe you skipped a pill. Maybe you got caught up in the moment and had unprotected sex during your fertile period. Regardless of the reason, there is a solution for that slip-up: Emergency contraception. And while emergency contraception might seem like a relatively new thing, Dr. Stephanie McClellan, CMO of the women’s health clinic and resource Tia, tells us that humans have been figuring out ways to prevent pregnancies for thousands of years. “There is a long history of barrier, oral herbs, and mechanical efforts to prevent implantation or to abort an early pregnancy,” Dr. McClellan says. “In the ancient Greek colony of Cyrene in North Africa, they developed a robust economy around the harvesting and export of silphium, a relative to fennel. It was in such demand as an effective contraceptive and abortifactant that it was harvested to extinction.” So, yeah, people have been trying to figure out ways to not have babies probably almost as long as we’ve been having them. But while the ancients had to rely on rare herbs that had varying degrees of efficacy (and safety), modern emergency contraception is safe, effective, and relatively easy to access. Let’s take a closer look at what emergency contraception is — and what it isn’t — plus some very important things to keep in mind when you’re considering if you want to use it.

The “Morning-After Pill” Is Actually Two Pills—and It’s Not Just For the Morning After

Even saying “the” morning after pill isn’t totally accurate, because in the United States it’s really two morning-after pills, and they can be taken up to 72 hours after sex. The two most common brands are Plan B and ella. They work differently and do slightly different things, so let’s take a look at both. Plan B (as well as Next Choice One Dose, Take Action, My Way, AfterPill) contains levonorgestrel, which is a progestin hormone that prevents ovulation. It also makes your cervical mucus thicker to block sperm trying to get in, and it changes the lining of your uterus so it’s harder for implantation to occur (i.e. for a fertilized egg to attach in the uterus) in the event that you’ve already ovulated. You can take it within three days of unprotected sex and it’s available over the counter.
One thing that not everyone knows — but everyone really should — is that your weight affects how effective Plan B is.
Ella, on the other hand, uses ulipristal acetate to delay or stop ovulation and also makes it more difficult for a fertilized egg to implant in the uterus. You have to go to the doctor and get a prescription for this one! Luckily, there’s also the option now to get it online, complete with a telemedicine visit with a doctor. Planned Parenthood recommends this site if you want to go that route. (Most Planned Parenthoods also have it in stock and you can get an appointment same-day for emergency contraception.)

An IUD Works as Emergency Contraception, Too

While both ella and Plan B are great in certain circumstances (and we’ll talk about them in a moment), there’s another form of emergency contraception: the copper IUD, which is sold under the brand name Paragard. If you get a Paragard within 120 hours (or five days) of having unprotected sex, it’s the most effective kind of emergency contraception. Not only that, it lasts for 10 years and is also the most effective kind of regular contraception! (Yup — even better than a vasectomy.) In order to get a copper IUD, you’ll have to have it inserted by a health care provider. The process isn’t very comfortable, but many people love the fact that once it’s in there, you’re good to go for a decade. It’s worth discussing Paragard with your doctor if you need emergency contraception and also are thinking about a more effective long-term birth control method.

Only One Kind Should Be Used As Regular Contraception

Of the three types of emergency contraception — two hormonal and one copper IUD — only the IUD should be used for regular contraception. That means if you find that you have to take a hormonal morning-after pill more than once in a cycle (or even a couple of cycles in a row), it might be time to consider other birth control options. Check out Bedsider.org’s great comparison chart of the different types of birth control and then go to see your doctor fully informed.

Your Weight (and Other Birth Control) Can Mess With Emergency BC

One thing that not everyone knows — but everyone really should — is that your weight affects how effective Plan B is. If you weigh more than 164 pounds, then Plan B isn’t the right choice for you. Instead, use ella or make an appointment to get an IUD. If your normal contraception is a hormonal birth control (like the Pill, patch, ring, or implant), then ella isn’t a good choice for you either. Taking ella and another hormonal method can make both methods less effective, so talk to your doctor about the best solution.

The Morning-After Pill Is NOT An Abortion Pill

Despite what anti-contraception groups and politicians might have you believe, the morning-after pill is not an abortion pill. The morning-after pill prevents your body from releasing an egg — and also prevents a fertilized egg from implanting on the uterus. There is no pregnancy until the fertilized egg has implanted.
“You are more likely to develop side effects if you use emergency contraception more than once in the same cycle."
The abortion pill (which is more formally called a “medication abortion”) ends an early pregnancy by blocking the hormones that make pregnancy possible. That means the egg has been fertilized, has implanted, and has started to grow a fetus.

The Morning-After Pill May Come With Side Effects

Some (although not all) people report side effects from both types of morning-after pill. Dr. McClellan says that “the most common side effects are headaches, nausea, and irregular bleeding or spotting,” as a result of the hormones contained in the pills. “You are more likely to develop side effects if you use emergency contraception more than once in the same cycle,” she continues. “Women may also complain of breast tenderness, abdominal discomfort, fatigue, and dizziness. Persistent or increasing abdominal pain and bleeding require an immediate visit with a doctor to make sure there is not an ectopic pregnancy or a miscarriage in process causing these symptoms. Use of emergency contraception does not increase your risk of ectopic pregnancy.”

There’s One Day of the Month That the Morning-After Pill Won’t Work

Because many people don’t know when they ovulate, doctors recommend that people take the morning-after pill after unprotected sex regardless of where they are in their cycle. But there’s one day that it will be way less effective, and that’s if you take it on the day you ovulate — or for 24 hours after ovulation. That’s because, as you might recall, the morning-after pill delays ovulation. However, Dr. McClellan says that because morning-after pills do a range of other things—like thickening cervical mucus and preventing implantation of a fertilized egg—it might still be worth taking if you really want to avoid pregnancy. One thing to note is that if you do track your cycle and know you’re close to ovulation, ella is more effective than Plan B at preventing pregnancy during that time. The world of emergency contraception has probably always been confusing, even back in ancient Greece. But we hope you’re walking away feeling a little more educated — and ready to take on whatever slip-ups might come your way.

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