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The Xaga Curve is sculpted from pure black obsidian, featuring a pleasurable curve and bulbous end to entice the g-spot. A powerful protective and grounding crystal, black obsidian is ideal for shadow work, helping one identify and remove barriers to facilitate healing. Black obsidian can provide strength and support during difficult circumstances and reveal blocks that might be holding one back. This crystal dildo is able to absorb negative energy and release stress to improve emotional well-being. It is an excellent stone to keep during times of mental or physical stress or to heal from grief. This Chakrub will alleviate fears and worries to allow one to become more comfortable within themselves and their surroundings. It is also believed to promote stamina and vigor and encourages wise decision making.
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Black obsidian, renowned for its ability to absorb negative energy and facilitate healing, helps shield against negativity while promoting strength, stamina, and emotional resilience. Perfect for shadow work, stress relief, and recovery from grief, black obsidian supports mental clarity, shields against emotional barriers, and encourages wise decision-making. Elevate your pleasure and inner balance with this uniquely powerful and beautifully crafted black obsidian dildo.
No more - “I was traveling and didn’t want a box left on my porch.”
No more - “I kept wondering if the material was really safe to use on my body.”
No more - “I wanted to use it in the shower but wasn’t sure if it was really safe.”
No more - “I didn’t want to invest in something that might break too soon.”
No more - “I was traveling and didn’t want a box left on my porch.”
No more - “I kept wondering if the material was really safe to use on my body.”
No more - “I wanted to use it in the shower but wasn’t sure if it was really safe.”
No more - “I didn’t want to invest in something that might break too soon.”
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Talking with patients about sexual health is easy! Finding tru...
Our products are developed together with Dame Labs,
a community of 10k+ real people who help us test, improve, and refine every design.
Designed with you, tested by people like you.
Talking with patients about sexual health is easy! Finding tru...
Talking with patients about sexual health is easy! Finding trusted resources to recommend - not so much. When I refer patients to Dame, I know that they are getting thoughtfully-designed, clinician-approved products made with high quality non-toxic materials and ingredients. A win-win!
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"I really do love the curve of this chakrub. It truly makes a difference in my self love experience. I love the black onyx. This is a crystal that want to hold on to that I feel like gives me strength and power. My complaint is that I don’t enjoy how skinny it is. I wish there was a generous curve chakrub."
"As soon as it came back in stock I had to have the xaga cock. I have been doing a lot of shadow work and I wanted to continue that work with this beautiful piece. It is very hefty so it'll be something I work up to but I've never felt connected to a piece more."
"I was immediately drawn to the Xaga curve. I am completely new to crystal work and sex toys for that matter, but I spent the past year getting to know myself and I've admired chakrubs from afar. For my birthday I decided to purchase as I got more familiar with what shadow work is and cord cutting. While we are still getting to know each other I know I made the best choice in this crystal for what it has shown me so far. I charge it in the sun and sleep with it under my pillow as I ask my body for permission to let go and open up. I will purchase from you all again and again. Thank you."
"Mine broke today (I’m a bit clumsy…) after a few years of helping me through a ton of trauma. Taking the break as a sign that it’s safe for me to continue exploring. Nothing has ever felt as good as this crystal. The shape is absolutely perfect, and the way it responds to body heat is divine. I’m so obsessed—of course I’m getting another one! If you’ve been thinking about it, please treat yourself. It’s beyond worth it."
"Mine broke today (I’m a bit clumsy…) after a few years of helping me through a ton of trauma. Taking the break as a sign that it’s safe for me to continue exploring. Nothing has ever felt as good as this crystal. The shape is absolutely perfect, and the way it responds to body heat is divine. I’m so obsessed—of course I’m getting another one! If you’ve been thinking about it, please treat yourself. It’s beyond worth it."
"I've used this for a couple months now. It is soooo healing and beautiful!! I absolutely love it."
"First of all I want say, that customer service is great - security, shipping (fast-also to Europe, discreet), packaging, answering questions on chat.I love my obsidian, we are still getting to know each other. I am not sure about the shape - if the tip of The Rokh should hit the prostate, it should point towards belly side. But to me always happen after some time that it rotate and it's pointing to my spine side. But I found it also nice, I found a way that with contractions of my muscles I am able to rotate The Rokh inside me. Or just squeezing it, brings me pleasure."
"I bought this specifically to work through sexual trauma and grooming. It's taken many years and tears to come to terms with the rapes and abuse, but the Xaga has helped me co-create a safe space of healing pleasure that is truly mine. It is empowerment and it is also relief, for I finally don't have to carry the burden alone."
"Very healing and powerful. I have an obsidian yoni egg .. and it felt like it revealed secret truths."
"I’ve had my obsidian wand for over five years now (wow!) and it’s been a beautiful crystalline support during my healing process around my pelvis and sexual energy. I’ve loved seeing it all unfold and how my relationship towards this earth ally has deepened over what feels like a lifetime. Thank you for making this sacred tool available."
A Black Obsidian Dildo is a crystal dildo crafted from natural Obsidian, known for its powerful energetic properties. It's different from regular sex toys because it combines sensual pleasure with the energy of a protective and grounding stone.
Using a crystal sex toy like Black Obsidian can deepen your connection to your own energy and intuition. Obsidian is believed to absorb negative energy and provide a sense of safety and clarity during intimacy. The Xaga Curve features a curved, bulbous design that allows for easier G-spot stimulation, making it highly effective for internal pleasure.
Yes, when made from high-quality, polished Obsidian that is carefully crafted for internal use, it is considered safe. It's essential to clean the crystal thoroughly before and after use to maintain its safety and energetic purity. Always choose products from reputable sources like Chakrubs x Dame that ensure the crystal is suitable for body contact. Always inspect glass dildos before use to ensure no part has broken or chipped.
Caring for your Black Obsidian Dildo involves gentle cleaning with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated sex toy cleaner. Since Obsidian is a natural stone, avoid harsh chemicals and abrasive scrubbers that might damage its surface. Regular cleaning helps preserve its beauty and energetic properties for many pleasurable experiences.
Integrating a crystal dildo like Black Obsidian into your wellness practice can create a powerful mind and body connection. You might meditate with the crystal beforehand to set your intention or use it during self-love sessions to amplify healing and grounding energies. It's a wonderful way to combine sensual pleasure with spiritual growth for overall well-being.