Fin: The Making of a Vibrator
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Fin: The Making of a Vibrator

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Created on 11/05/2017
Updated on 14/10/2022
Alexandra Fine

Alexandra Fine

Dame founder & sexologist

10+ years of experience

Sexual wellness Orgasm science Pleasure education

Alexandra Fine is the co-founder and CEO of Dame, a pioneering sexual wellness company known for its innovative products and mission to close the pleasure gap. Recognized in Forbes’ 30 Under 30 2018, Alexandra leads Dame in designing user-centered tools that enhance intimacy, receiving acclaim from major outlets like The New York Times and Wired. Under her leadership, Dame Products has become a leader in the sexual wellness industry, raised over $14M in capital, and launched in Target and Walmart, all while advocating for women's health and breaking barriers in advertising.

Edie Elliott Granger

Edie Elliott Granger

Editor & content strategist

3+ years of experience

Sexual wellness Orgasm science Pleasure education

Edie Elliott Granger is Dame's editor and content strategist specializing in sexual wellness, pleasure education, and accessible health information. She helps shape editorial content at Dame, translating research, expert insights, and cultural conversations into clear, approachable resources. With a background in sex education, her work focuses on making conversations around sex, bodies, and pleasure more informed, inclusive, and stigma-free.

 


 

Our whiteboard is overflowing.

We’re in this business because we have big ideas. A lot of them. Unfortunately for the world’s vaginas, we can’t make them all at once. So how do we choose what’s next?

We start with you. When it came time to think about our next product, we went back to early surveys of Eva users, containing feedback from 1446 vulva-havers and 499 penis-havers. Their reasons for loving Eva frequently cited “closeness,” “togetherness,” and that they could use their hands naturally. Could we make another vibrator that kept people engaged with their partner, and preserved their sense of touch, or even added to it?

A potential finger vibe stood out as one of the juicier hunches to explore. We surveyed our beta tester pool to learn what people like about using a vibrator for the hand or fingers.

In response to the question “What do you like about finger vibrators?”, over 50% of respondents included some mention of ease, small size, and power. The little lightbulbs floating over our heads started going nuts. We had already gained a ton of experience putting power into a small package during Eva’s development. We might be able to use those same lessons to make an easy-to-use toy that enhances the intimate touch people already enjoy.

It was time to dust off our glue guns and warm up the 3D printers for some DIY vibrator fun. We developed twelve physical concepts, each one worn or held on the hand by very different methods. Having real objects to discuss helped organize the conversation. Which qualities seemed most valuable? Which were deal-breakers? It quickly became obvious that awkward concepts weren’t popular. What else could we learn?

In surveys and interviews, we discussed everything from vibration strength to aesthetics, asking people to describe what they want in a final product. We weighted their responses according to what they felt was most important, bringing us to the rough design that would become Fin.

With a single idea in hand (get it?), we sent Fin prototypes to our tester pool to help us perfect the details. Right- and left-handed, solo and coupled, ages 20 to 65 — we tested prototypes with as many different types of people as possible. With these testers’ help, we fine-tuned small details and caught hidden gotchas to ensure we make the best vibrator for women and couples that we could.

And here we are. Even as we grow, we’re committed to keeping people like you in the loop. We don’t want to put anything on your nightstand without your approval!

If you’d like to be considered as a beta tester for our next product, give us your info and we’ll let you know the next time we have a data itch we need to scratch.

 

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FAQs

A: A vibrator is a powerful and versatile personal pleasure device that creates vibrations to stimulate various sensitive areas of your body, like the clitoris and G-spot. They come in a wide range of shapes, sizes, and features, so there's something for everyone.

Vibrators can be used on almost any erogenous zone, offering unique sensations that can boost your pleasure and help you discover what feels amazing. Some are designed to mimic penetration, while others focus on external stimulation to give you an unforgettable experience.

Did you know that fewer than 20% of vulva-owner can climax solely with vaginal stimulation or intercourse? This is why vibrators have been growing in popularity, and why companies like Dame are dedicated to amplifying the conversation of closing the pleasure gap.

Learn more on the blog.

A: Using a vibrator can enhance your pleasure significantly, but where you use them differs based on preference and if you are a vulva or penis owner. Begin by selecting a comfortable and private space where you feel at ease. If desired, use sex toy-safe lubrication, as this will enhance sensations and reduce friction. Turn on your vibrator (usually a button on the opposite end of the "head"), and explore different settings or intensities using the buttons provided on the device and gradually finding what feels best for you.

For an additional step-by-step guide, check out detailed instructions here, which talk about insights on techniques, positioning, and tips for maximum pleasure.

A: There are numerous types of vibrators, each designed for various forms of stimulation:

Clit Vibrator: These are specifically shaped to target the clitoris, often with a compact and discreet design for ease of use.

G-spot Vibrator: Typically curved, these vibrators are designed to reach and stimulate the G-spot, providing deeper sensations during penetration.

Finger Vibrator: Small and often worn on the fingertip, these offer precise control and are perfect for targeted stimulation.

Couples Vibrator: Designed to be worn during intercourse, they provide simultaneous pleasure by stimulating both partners.

Vibrating Cock Ring: Worn around the base of the penis, these enhance sensations for both partners during sex and can help with stamina.

Suction Vibrator: These use suction air-pulse technology to create a unique sensation for the clitoris, often simulating oral stimulation.

Wand Vibrator: Known for its powerful motors and larger size, these versatile devices can be used all over the body for broad-based pleasure.

Bullet Vibrator: Compact and portable and designed for targeted stimulation and are perfect for both solo and partnered play.

A: Yes! Dame vibrators are designed to be waterproof, making them suitable for use in the bath or shower. They also come with rechargeable batteries, eliminating the need for disposable batteries and ensuring long-lasting pleasure. Most can be charged via USB, making it easy to keep them ready for when the mood strikes.

A: Dame vibrators are touted for their whisper-quiet motors, designed to pleasure without drawing attention or distracting during intimate moments. If you're looking for a discreet vibrator, try looking for something smaller in size, like a bullet vibrator.