Sex Toys for Women

With over 10,000 nerve fibres in the clitoris, women have an entire world to explore when it comes to pleasure. Multiple orgasms in a session? Numerous different types of orgasms? The possibilities are endless.

That's why today's sex toy market offers a wide variety of sex toys designed specifically for women. At Dame, we've made it a point to carry only the best of the best: products proven to get women off in so many possible ways.

Here are some of the most popular types of sex toys:

• G-Spot Vibrators
• Clitoral Stimulators
• Suction Vibrators
• Wand Vibrators
• Anal Toys, like vibrating butt plugs
• Yoni Eggs

How to Choose the Best Female Sex Toys

Finding the right toy starts with understanding your desires and needs, which means that the best way to begin exploring is sometimes without any toys at all. It starts with asking yourself the right questions. Here are four areas of thinking that you should consider when finding the right sex toy:

1. What body part do you want to focus on?

First, ask yourself: Are you more interested in internal, external, or a combination of both stimulation? Spend some time playing with your clitoris and fingers, noticing what sensations feel best. Do you prefer rubbing, tapping, or circling? Visualize how those motions could feel with a toy, and start to imagine what might turn the volume up a notch.

2. What sensations do you want to feel?

Then, consider the vibe you want: Do you prefer quiet, subtle sensations or powerful, rumbly vibrations? If you share a space or have thin walls (such as in an apartment with roommates), the noise level may be a concern. Dame's products balance powerful vibrations with quieter operation, so you don't have to worry about the walls overhearing your pleasure party.

3. Who will be using the sex toy?

Are you using this solo or with a partner? Think about how the toy will complement your current routine or enhance shared experiences.

If you're using toys alone, consider pairing a clitoral stimulator like Fin with a glass dildo for an incredible blended orgasm that reaches your G-spot as well. This combo can keep your hands from getting tired and allow for multiple climaxes in one session. If you are looking to explore, here are a few more tips on achieving multiple orgasms.

4. What sex toy materials do you like?

Finally, think about materials. Silicone is the most common, but metal or crystal Yoni Eggs are beautiful, versatile, and great for both wellness and pleasure.

If you're curious, Dame's female vibrators only use medical-grade silicone, which is 100% body safe. That being said, it's essential always to make sure to wash your toys with sex toy cleaner properly and remember that when you're pairing lube with your silicone vibrators, choose a water or aloe-based lube so as not to degrade the silicone.

Holistic Benefits of Sex Toys for Women

Sex toys offer more than just pleasure; they're powerful tools for self-discovery, confidence-building, and deeper intimacy with yourself and with others. Incorporating toys into your routine can lead to better, more satisfying orgasms and a deeper understanding of what makes your body tick. Here are just a few ways sex toys can benefit your life:

• Boost confidence and self-awareness: Using toys can help you tune into what feels good, empowering you with greater control over your sexual experiences.
• Discover new sensations: Sex toys open the door to a broader range of stimulation, helping you explore what you like while unlocking new paths to pleasure.
• Enhance intimacy with partners: Toys can spark curiosity, add variety, and create shared moments of connection and play in the bedroom.
• Promote relaxation and better sleep: Orgasms release feel-good hormones like oxytocin and endorphins, which can reduce stress, ease tension, and even help you sleep more soundly. A study from 2013 showed that women reflected significantly decreased distress after receiving therapy using a genital vibratory stimulation device.

Why Women Love Air-Pulse aka "Clit Suckers"

One of the most exciting innovations in recent years for clitoral pleasure is air-pulse technology. This is the type of feature that's often used in what most people call "suction toys," such as the Aer or the Strawberry Emojibator. Unlike traditional vibrators, which rely on direct contact and vibration, air pulse toys use soft, rhythmic pulses of air that stimulate nerve endings around the clitoris without directly contacting it.

Pro tip: Combine a clitoral stimulator with other toys like internal vibrators or dildos for a powerful multi-sensory experience. Remember, experimentation is all a part of the process.

Benefits of the Emojibator Vibrators

• Affordable Price Point: Priced around $30-$80, Emojibators are an excellent entry-level option for anyone curious about exploring sex toys without a significant financial commitment. They offer great value, especially for those wanting to try different styles without breaking the bank.
• Super Fun Design: Decidedly not scary looking, the bright, fruit-inspired shapes make the idea of using a vibrator less intimidating and more inviting. It can live in your space like any other cute object or decoration, and helps change the stigma of vibrators.
• Multi-Use: Compact and simple, Emojibators are surprisingly effective for external stimulation and can be used for clitoral pleasure or foreplay.
• Easy-to-Use: With straightforward and rechargeable designs and convenient sizes, these toys are ideal for beginners seeking a fuss-free, user-friendly experience.

Female Sex Toys: A Little History and a Whole Lot of Pleasure

Did you know that the oldest known sex toy for women is a 30,000-year-old siltstone dildo found in a cave in Germany? That's right. This ancient artifact reveals that humans have been seeking pleasure since the earliest times.

Unlike other tools from that era, it was smooth, carefully shaped, and designed for something much more personal and more intimate: pleasure. It proves that women were exploring and owning their pleasure thousands of years ago. Long before modern-day conversations around sex and toys, pleasure has always been part of our story.

Today, sex toys are everywhere, available in stores like Target and beyond. But let's be real: the stigma around using them isn't gone.

For so many women, there's a real pleasure gap. Women want to enjoy pleasure, but they often don't get the same acceptance and support as men do. And navigating this in relationships can be tricky. Partners don't always get that sometimes, a little extra help (or a little extra toy) makes all the difference when it comes to reaching orgasm.

And just to be clear: sex toys aren't just the classic vibrators. The world of pleasure is broader than that. Sensations such as touch, smell, and taste all play a role in creating the overall experience. Lubricants, massage oils, candles, sex dice, and more can help you get in the mood, and should all be considered as part of your pleasure toolkit.