Not just another newsletter. It's a movement to close the pleasure gap.
Founded in 2014 by sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT engineer Janet Lieberman, Dame is committed to changing the way sexual wellness and pleasure is understood and experienced.
Alex and Janet found Dame and developed Eva, the most crowdfunded sex toy in history
Dame's second product Fin is the first sex toy allowed on Kickstarter.
Dame sues NYC's subways for discrimination in advertising, catching the attention of The New York Times, The Today Show, Vice, Forbes, and more.
We're leading a sexual wellness revolution that has touched 10 million lives and counting.
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Maybe you've been there — or heard the reports — that women are not quite as satisfied with sexual activity as their male counterparts. Less pleasure, less arousal, fewer orgasms… that's no way to live. Dame is on a mission to end this disparity — a.k.a The Pleasure Gap — by shaping paths to shame-free sexual pleasure and wellbeing. Through the products we develop and engineer in-house, our work with Dame Labs, and the stories we tell, we’re creating a world where wellness is a pleasure.
Reported they “usually” or “always” orgasm during sex.*
Described recent sex as “not at all pleasureable.”
Meet Our Clinical Board
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Amy Novatt, MD
MD Board-certified OB/GYN
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Aimée Gould Shunney
ND Naturopathic physician
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Holly Richmond, PhD, LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT), Somatic Psychotherapist, and Certified Sex Therapist (CST)
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Dr. Uchenna Ossai
Board-Certified Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist
