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Sexual Wellness

Why Masturbation Is Good For Your Health

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Created on 18/05/2020
Updated on 11/09/2025
Alexandra Fine

Alexandra Fine

Dame founder & sexologist

10+ years of experience

Sexual wellness Orgasm science Pleasure education

Alexandra Fine is the co-founder and CEO of Dame, a pioneering sexual wellness company known for its innovative products and mission to close the pleasure gap. Recognized in Forbes’ 30 Under 30 2018, Alexandra leads Dame in designing user-centered tools that enhance intimacy, receiving acclaim from major outlets like The New York Times and Wired. Under her leadership, Dame Products has become a leader in the sexual wellness industry, raised over $14M in capital, and launched in Target and Walmart, all while advocating for women's health and breaking barriers in advertising.

Edie Elliott Granger

Edie Elliott Granger

Editor & content strategist

3+ years of experience

Sexual wellness Orgasm science Pleasure education

Edie Elliott Granger is Dame's editor and content strategist specializing in sexual wellness, pleasure education, and accessible health information. She helps shape editorial content at Dame, translating research, expert insights, and cultural conversations into clear, approachable resources. With a background in sex education, her work focuses on making conversations around sex, bodies, and pleasure more informed, inclusive, and stigma-free.

It’s not exactly a secret that masturbation is amazing. Orgasms are an essential part of self-care. Giving yourself pleasure should be as fundamental to your daily routine as breakfast and brushing your hair. When we orgasm, our brains release a whole host of feel-good chemicals that offer a state of calm and well-being. If you need a little more convincing that masturbation is all we’re making it out to be, consider the health benefits. Yes, masturbation is straight-up good for your physical health—not just in a “feel more connected to yourself” way (which is true, too). While they are very fun and feel very good, orgasms offer everything from stress relief and immune-boosting effects, to releasing sleep-inducing chemicals and the relief of menstrual cramps. Since it’s Masturbation May, we decided there was no time like the present to show you why orgasms are good for your health, as shown by science.

Orgasms Lower Stress Levels

During these uncertain times, our stress levels are extremely high. And orgasms have positive impact on stress. “The simple effect of lower blood pressure from a self-induced orgasm is a noticeable benefit to the cardiovascular system and reflects lower stress levels,” says Dr. Katherine Zagone, N.D., the medical director and a sexual wellness expert at Gentera. Aall that lovely oxytocin also plays a part in our overall wellbeing. While being an excellent pain reliever, studies also show that this wonderful little hormone helps to decrease anxiety. We can all use that right now, amiright? Even non-orgasmic pleasure can boost our health. During foreplay and sexual excitement, your brain naturally releases the chemical serotonin, which helps to increase sexual satisfaction and regulate mood. Self-love offers a cocktail of brain-balancing delights.

Self-Love Can Tone the PC Muscles

Are you a gym bunny? Well, masturbation happens to be a great muscle workout. For the PCs, anyway. There are five stages of orgasm: desire, arousal, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. The plateau phase, the one right before orgasm, has been shown to help the Kegel muscles (the PCs or pubococcygeus muscles). This hammock-like set of muscles is responsible for holding in your internal organs and plays a role in sexual satisfaction. “Having toned PC muscles is a good way to prevent everything from vaginal prolapse to the dreaded sneeze-pee phenomenon,” D’Angelo explains.As we age we naturally begin to lose muscle tone in the pelvic floor, so experiencing frequent orgasms is a great way to keep our largest muscle group active, toned and healthy.” Here is where the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle comes into play. According to The Association for Pelvic Organ Prolapse Support, during the plateau stage, the pelvic floor begins to receive an increase of blood, preparing the pelvic floor for orgasmic contractions. This inadvertently gives the pelvic floor a really good workout. So, instead of doing your daily “squeeze and release” PC routine, masturbation could be all you need. (Note: If you suffer from a vaginal condition such as endometriosis or vaginismus, consult a qualified pelvic floor specialist about masturbation pain management techniques that are best for you.)

Orgasms Relieve Pain

While it’s not exactly mainstream (yet, for some reason) that orgasms can help with pain management, we’ve known about it for quite some time. A 1986 study from Rutgers University found that women experience a higher pain threshold after orgasm than before. What’s more, it also helps reduce pain. “Orgasm is a strong analgesic, which means experiencing an orgasm can reduce varying levels of pain,” explains Kristine D’Angelo, a certified sex coach and clinical sexologist. When we orgasm, the brain releases the neurochemical oxytocin. This chemical is nature’s natural bonding hormone and a pain reducer. Masturbation can be super-helpful in relieving period cramps, headaches, muscle pains, and hangovers.

Orgasms Boost the Immune System (Maybe)

These are quite scary times, friends. And anything we can do to boost the immune system is a good thing. Luckily, masturbation can help with that, too! While more research on this topic is definitely needed, the scientific results are promising thus far. One study in men showed increased absolute leukocyte numbers post-orgasm. Zagone explains that these are Natural Killer cells. “Natural Killer cells are a big part of the innate immune system. The innate immune system is the first line of defense against viruses—another reason to add it to your quarantine routine,” she explains.

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FAQs

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Vibrators can be used on almost any erogenous zone, offering unique sensations that can boost your pleasure and help you discover what feels amazing. Some are designed to mimic penetration, while others focus on external stimulation to give you an unforgettable experience.

Did you know that fewer than 20% of vulva-owner can climax solely with vaginal stimulation or intercourse? This is why vibrators have been growing in popularity, and why companies like Dame are dedicated to amplifying the conversation of closing the pleasure gap.

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Clit Vibrator: These are specifically shaped to target the clitoris, often with a compact and discreet design for ease of use.

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Finger Vibrator: Small and often worn on the fingertip, these offer precise control and are perfect for targeted stimulation.

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Vibrating Cock Ring: Worn around the base of the penis, these enhance sensations for both partners during sex and can help with stamina.

Suction Vibrator: These use suction air-pulse technology to create a unique sensation for the clitoris, often simulating oral stimulation.

Wand Vibrator: Known for its powerful motors and larger size, these versatile devices can be used all over the body for broad-based pleasure.

Bullet Vibrator: Compact and portable and designed for targeted stimulation and are perfect for both solo and partnered play.

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