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Sexual Wellness

Dame's Guide to Orgasms

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Created on 29/07/2020
Updated on 23/03/2026
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Dame has explored all kinds of ways to have orgasms, from relaxing breathwork to G-spot massage to hands-free pleasure! Here are nine of our favorite posts about getting off.

1. Want Intense Orgasms? Practice Mindful Masturbation

"Mindful masturbation can be a pressure-free exploration of sensations that simply feel good."

2. How to Have More Orgasms With a Partner

"If you’ve got your masturbation routine on lock but are still struggling to come with another cute human being, here are some tips to help get you there."

3. How to Have a G-Spot Orgasm

Diagram of anatomy pointing to the G-Spot

4. How to Orgasm Without Being Touched

“Orgasmic experiences brought on by breath don’t feel exactly the way genital orgasms do.”

5. What Is a Blended Orgasm?

"If you enjoy external stimulation of the clitoris in tandem with G-spot stimulation, that’s having a blended orgasm."

6. How to Have a Breast Orgasm

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7. How to Embrace Your Weird Sounds, Feels, and Orgasms During Sex

"Sex is a messy, weird, funny, hot, sexy, awkward, often hilarious thing and it never looks the way you’d expect."

8. How a Month Without an Orgasm Improved My Sex Life

"By learning to take the focus off the end goal, I could fully enjoy every step of the journey."

9. Some People Never Orgasm—and That's Perfectly Okay

"Research suggests anorgasmia it’s three or four times more common in people who were assigned female at birth."

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FAQs

A: A vibrator is a powerful and versatile personal pleasure device that creates vibrations to stimulate various sensitive areas of your body, like the clitoris and G-spot. They come in a wide range of shapes, sizes, and features, so there's something for everyone.

Vibrators can be used on almost any erogenous zone, offering unique sensations that can boost your pleasure and help you discover what feels amazing. Some are designed to mimic penetration, while others focus on external stimulation to give you an unforgettable experience.

Did you know that fewer than 20% of vulva-owner can climax solely with vaginal stimulation or intercourse? This is why vibrators have been growing in popularity, and why companies like Dame are dedicated to amplifying the conversation of closing the pleasure gap.

Learn more on the blog.

A: Using a vibrator can enhance your pleasure significantly, but where you use them differs based on preference and if you are a vulva or penis owner. Begin by selecting a comfortable and private space where you feel at ease. If desired, use sex toy-safe lubrication, as this will enhance sensations and reduce friction. Turn on your vibrator (usually a button on the opposite end of the "head"), and explore different settings or intensities using the buttons provided on the device and gradually finding what feels best for you.

For an additional step-by-step guide, check out detailed instructions here, which talk about insights on techniques, positioning, and tips for maximum pleasure.

A: There are numerous types of vibrators, each designed for various forms of stimulation:

Clit Vibrator: These are specifically shaped to target the clitoris, often with a compact and discreet design for ease of use.

G-spot Vibrator: Typically curved, these vibrators are designed to reach and stimulate the G-spot, providing deeper sensations during penetration.

Finger Vibrator: Small and often worn on the fingertip, these offer precise control and are perfect for targeted stimulation.

Couples Vibrator: Designed to be worn during intercourse, they provide simultaneous pleasure by stimulating both partners.

Vibrating Cock Ring: Worn around the base of the penis, these enhance sensations for both partners during sex and can help with stamina.

Suction Vibrator: These use suction air-pulse technology to create a unique sensation for the clitoris, often simulating oral stimulation.

Wand Vibrator: Known for its powerful motors and larger size, these versatile devices can be used all over the body for broad-based pleasure.

Bullet Vibrator: Compact and portable and designed for targeted stimulation and are perfect for both solo and partnered play.

A: Yes! Dame vibrators are designed to be waterproof, making them suitable for use in the bath or shower. They also come with rechargeable batteries, eliminating the need for disposable batteries and ensuring long-lasting pleasure. Most can be charged via USB, making it easy to keep them ready for when the mood strikes.

A: Dame vibrators are touted for their whisper-quiet motors, designed to pleasure without drawing attention or distracting during intimate moments. If you're looking for a discreet vibrator, try looking for something smaller in size, like a bullet vibrator.